Dr. Peter Breggin's Newsletter ~ Empathic Therapy, Education & Living |
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10/28/2010 - Volume1, Issue 9 |
In This Issue Our Center for the Study of Empathic Therapy is Now Registered in NY State Are Independent Thinkers Mentally Ill? More Unnerving DSM Proposals Are we a Psychiatric Nation--Latest Hot Sales Figures of Psychiatric Drugs Exciting Upcoming Guests on Dr. Breggin's Talk Radio Show Parenting Alert--Empathy is Best Taught During Discipline Center for the Study of Empathic Therapy, Education & Living EmpathicTherapy.org 1-607-272-5328 Center for the Study of Empathic Therapy, Education & Living Attention: Ginger Breggin 101 East State St #112 Ithaca, NY 14850 Register NOW! for our Empathic Therapy Conference, April 8-10, 2011 Register Here |
Dear [Contact.First Name], We are continuing to build our Our Center for the Study of Empathic Therapy, Education & Living which is now registered as a nonprofit corporation in New York State. Be sure to become a member while our special founding memberships are available. They are good for the entire period from now through December 2011. Psychiatric drugs continue to produce gargantuan profits. This issue presents an analysis of the 2009 sales figures. Also, I've included an interesting blog about one of the new DSM-V diagnostic proposals. Dr. Breggin continues to have fascinating guests on his internet radio show. You can listen from anywhere in the world to interviews with some of the most interesting, provocative and informative people in the world! See the announcement below. And finally we have a guest article by counselor Gary Unruh that introduces us to his new book. See our guest feature below. Remember to sign up for our upcoming April 8-10, 2011 Empathic Therapy, Education & Living conference! It is now fast approaching. Very best, Ginger Breggin, Editor Join Our Center for the Study of Empathic Therapy --Now Registered with the State of New York Our submitted documents have worked their way through the proper state departments and our new Empathic Therapy organization is now registered in the State of New York. I want to remind everyone to send in their formal memberships to our new organization. You are supporting a growing movement to look beyond psychiatry, beyond psychiatric labels and beyond psychiatric drugs and electroshock toward empathic, ethical human services alternatives for adults and children, elders and other vulnerable populations. It is time to put the ‘human’ back into human services and we hope to inspire and inform generations of therapists, counselors, educators, psychiatrists and social workers to embrace empathy rather than simplistic and depersonalizing labels and drugs. Go to our website, http://www.empathictherapy.org/ and become a formal member today at our special, limited time only, founding member price! Are Independent Thinkers Mentally Ill? Here is an interesting commentary about the new DSM-V diagnoses being proposed, written by Mark Nestmann (September 16, 2010) Do you question authority? Fail to accept conventional wisdom? Lose your temper when you hear a politician make a promise that you know he or she can’t keep? If so, you may be mentally ill, according to the most recent revision of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). In this revision, psychiatrists hope to add dozens of new mental disorders. Unfortunately, many of these so-called illnesses target people who merely think or behave differently from the majority population. A case in point is “oppositional defiant disorder (ODD).” DSM defines ODD as “an ongoing pattern of disobedient, hostile and defiant behavior toward authority figures.” Symptoms include losing one’s temper, annoying people and being “touchy.” Other “disorders” include antisocial behavior, arrogance, cynicism and narcissism.... While diagnosis of ODD “victims” focuses on children, there’s no reason why ODD can’t exist in adults. Indeed, ODD can evolve into “conduct disorder” (CD), which DSM defines as “wherein the rights of others or social norms are violated.” Uh-oh. So violating “social norms” is now a mental illness as well....Read more here. We are a Psychiatric Nation Forbes has detailed how deeply psychiatric meds are embedded into our popular culture, as well as our daily routine. The most often taken psychiatric drug is Xanax, followed closely by Ambien (a sleeping pill) and Lexapro (an antidepressant). This article examines many of the ways that psychiatric diagnosis and drugs have influenced and sometimes dominate our culture and our lives. Read more here. Situation 1: Mom points toward Allan’s room like a cop directing traffic: “Allan Michael Jr….” Uh-oh, Allen thinks, middle name; I’m in trouble now. “I told you to stop hitting your sister. To your room right now.” Mom leaves the room, shaking her head, thinking, I’ve tried everything.… Don’t feel alone, Mom. this is where the vast majority of parents are stuck and are missing the chance to teach empathy. Situation 2: In another house, not far down the street, the same hitting behavior is happening. This mom, though, is using a new approach: Unleashing Parental Love. She’s trying to follow the rules, keep her feelings out of it, stay calm, and be interested in Becky’s feelings. She stops to think: Take a couple of deep breaths, this is crazy, don’t yell.… “Becky, let’s sit down.” Breathe slowly. “Okay, I can see you’re really mad. What happened?” Becky gives a play-by-play. Mom keeps trying to remember what to do next. Oh, yeah. Don’t lecture; support the feelings. “I’d be mad, too. You should be mad.” Becky thinks, What’s got into Mom? After more supportive comments, Mom says, “Let’s find another way to handle the anger.” A consequence is set if Becky hits her sister without first coming to Mom and sharing her feelings. Empathy is the behavior of love even when someone has done something “bad.” Every one of us knows the joy and multiple benefits of empathy. We’ve all felt it and given it, but it’s elusive when someone does something “bad.” And that’s when it’s needed most, feels the best, and does the most good. With this comprehensive approach to empathy, parents separate behavior from feelings. The feeling, representing the core of the child at any given moment, is validated and split away from the “bad” behavior. All of a sudden the child feels loved (lovable, understood, and accepted) during discipline and learns a life-changing lesson: “I am acceptable when I make a mistake, and I need to learn how to handle my feelings in an acceptable way.” Self-confidence and physical and mental health flourish. And since the experience is so fulfilling, these children want to do the same thing with others. That’s the amazing unlimited power of empathy that I’ve witnessed with over 2,500 kids as I’ve used this approach. 1. Parents need to set aside their feelings and thoughts at the beginning of a conflict. Peter R. Breggin, MD is no longer affiliated with the Center for the Study of Psychiatry, informally known as International Center for the Study of Psychiatry and Psychology, which he founded and led from 1972-2002,
and Dr. Breggin is no longer involved in its conferences. Copyright 2010 Peter R. Breggin, MD
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